*SeriOus* some thoughts on Marriage

My laziness has always been fighting over the desire to pen down a post like this, too many of you have been disagreed with me on this diff thought of mine. It's not my purpose to change your view, we are all entitled to differ. But I always wanted to clarify certain misinterpretion u guys have on my view towards MARRIAGE.

Let me start with my stand on marriage in your perception--someone anti-marriage, holding negative thoughts about marriage, having no confidence towards marriage, and hating the formality of marriage?
BIG NO!! WRONG WRONG!!

I might be d one who put 'marriage' in a more sacred status than anyone of you do. No girl has no fantasy about having an ideal and perfect rship and thereto, a marriage life. Yes i do dream about that all the time, someone who truly loves me with his soul, cares about me as much as he does before & after getting into married, a dramatic proposal, a romantic wedding in somewhr like skopelos, having a little kitchen where we can cook 2gether, a cosy sofa where we cuddled in front of the TV, holiday in our dream destination twice a year, lovely kids that we can kiss goodnite everday etc....tell me, who dont? I will not let anything to get into my way, for me, its as simple as this, either i live a married life like this, or I will just being single ( as in not married, not 2 say i can live without a rship though. Girls always need the radiance of lOvE, thats the secret of staying young.hahaha...)

The reason that I used to say I am not adamantly wanting a marriage is not that I don care whether having one or not, it is my perversely insistence of having a perfect one. If I am not fully prepared for one or couldnt find one, I will not rashly get into a marriage. You would say 'who doesnt know about this theory?' yup, but i can say most of the ppl blindly get into an improper marriage just because they wanted to get married so much, thinking without one, their life won't be perfect. I agree with the qualification that without a good marriage, life isnt perfect, a pathetic marriage ( which is so common around you ) won't perfectionate your life but wil only makes it miserable at the same time ruining the wonderful anticipation that we devoted to the concept of 'marriage' , creating more failed examples to the masterpiece on earth--the unification of a man and a woman as a perfect whole.
Marriage, for these ppl would be reduced into a mere piece of paper with strings of problems resulting from the legal bond. To try out a guy and then only tear off faces in court, hurting the kids and family v love, arguing over the amount of maintenance, risking the prospect of our respective career in case it fails? NO WAY. if you want to try, try with a rship without this kinda consequences..a rship without the legality.

I just wan't to make sure before i decide to get into the( not 'a' ) marriage one day, I am prepared physically, mentally and financially to take on the responsibility and obligation attached, thought over the sacrifices and enormous effort that needed to be paid and happily willing to take it. The right person, right timing, right maturity, right circumstances, right preparation-- until i have found all these combination at any stage of my life~~> no marriage, i allow no smudge in my marriage if there is ever going to be one.

OpiniOn Please??

Should I perm my hair like this?

Im sick of my current hairstyle, bt at the same time im worried tat curly hairs will make me look like aunty..

btw, this was taken when i put down my hairs after coiling into a bun for few hours, i din't do anything on it. i am thinking mayb i shd do sth like this.....should i?look old?

btw, strangely enough, after so long nvr been to 1-U, all i bought was accessories...

Fila mini duffle bag which is of my favourite navy blue colour.RM41.70 after 70% discount.haha...i have new college bag!!!

a RM39.90 watch from NOSE

I have been considering for 2 weeks...though its cheap, the reason has been my old casio watch tat has accompanied me for 8 yrs. I know it will be dumped aside then..T.T sad for it...

ahha...and another RM10 for 1 pair of earing,1 anklet, 1 necklace.dirt cheap ya?

Random = rawak

Today someone said 'i tot u hav ady 4gotten the existence of ur blog. hangat hangat tahi ayam!'

'.........'

ok, after class, i realy hav nth2 do, so decided2 clear up d photos in my camera, found some random family & frens' photos, which i think shd upload here.

coz, i suddenly miss my family so much when i started2 browse thru d pic......

cool LOTUS in genting highlands, parked outside resort hotel.

taken in RAKUZEN- i was actually testing my camera. T.T great but expensive meal

hahaha..a photo im proud of!!

venue : mr.karpal singh's house in penang.

date : 7/3/2008 ( a day b4 the general election 2008 which i was an assistant )

kuan kuan's ( my youngest cousin ) 1st bday, dad looks lik more enjoying d cake than the person he is feeding.haha..


one acts lik 歌神 ,one 扮cute---match ma....

miss d redbox days wif u guys

me n kuan kuan during cny, he is so 有型on his motorbike

whr were v?....hmm.....i think a hotel in shah alam kua...

During house warming--a happy day for me

New Room for jingen...i know it's simple, but im grateful enough

grandpa, grandma, dad and a stupid-looked brother

dad's XX bday.look at his cute face when blowing d candle. he actually begged us2 buy him the cake bcoz he loves cakes..wahahaha...d best pandan layer cake i hav ever eaten

COnvO 2008-Ball n After Party

Needless to say anything else on the convo, it was truly amazing n fun!!!

Here are some photos to share, all from others' camera,hahaha...will be uploading again when I have collected more photos including those from my own camera.

Due to the rushing, missed out precious oppurtunities2 take photos with some ppl that I wanted to, haiz,tats d only imperfect thing ( including d old frens tat couldnt make it, ya, talking bout u!! bastard! )

Schedule of the day in brief :

7.50am-KM woke me up for bfast

9.20am-reached convention centre for rehearsal ( late due to zero parking space )

10.10am-rehearsal finished ( it was jz a briefing, most of the time was used2 queue up 130 excited graduates, haha.. )collected robe

11.00am-brunch at klcc food court wif willis, Km, Fj, yh n alvin

12.30pm-reached willis' hotel. no room for us yet, so had to squeeze into his parents room. they went out for lunch so tat v could rest i think,so paiseh...

2pm-woke up from nap, started preparing (no electricity plug in d room, fj fainted--she couldnt perm her hairs)

4pm-Km reached d hotel n picked us up

4.40pm-reached convention centre (extremely late again, i had received numerous calls tat lecturers ady called my name few times. promised waiwin2 reach earlier for photographing, shit..)

5.45pm-after all the kelam kabut( ran upstairs2 wear the robe and board, looked for safety pins, contacting dad, aunty and cousins),finally i sat down in my place,relieved........coz all of my "honoured guests" had reached in time

6pm- ceremony started...i had counted, around 10ppl almost fell on d stage, 1 seriously fell into the VVIP's plc.Y not they jz lay a red carpet thr, such a slippery stage esp for those wearing high heels..I went up the stage for 4 times somemore, increased chances of me falling down, luckily all safe n sound!!

8pm- ball started wif VVIP and graduates walking on red carpet ( now they put it ), took our graduate photo.

10.30pm--dad, mom n yi left to uncle's house, hahahaha...i nvr tot tat i would hav a chance2 cabut wif frens to the after party!!

11.50pm- reached Sky Bar, but was informed tat it's gonna closed at 12.30pm

12.15am--reached quattro, here's the parteh!!!!!20ppl partying lik crazy

2.30am-left quattro reluctantly, had great fun thr! ( cheng cheng scolded me for leaving too early wor,im alwaz a passenger in car, wat2do...:( )

wooo...men in black!! leng chai la leng chai la...





wif gillian n fj

wif Cat n fj (luckily manage 2 catch a photo wif both of them,thx for all the way here :))

Gorgeous?haha...this cheng cheng ar, so sharp, taken d spotlight.:P

a shot just b4 d ceremony started

Gandhi~~~

Geri and her DIY dress

me and some closer Second Uppers :P

Left2right : KM. Alvin, Waiwin, me, Eddie, Willis

Left2right: Kristyle, Cheng cheng, me, Chloe, ms meera, leelin, Fj


Our popular Mr Amerjit

Left2 right: KW, Yvonne,cheng cheng, amerjit, Fj,waiwin, Al, me


Dang dang....FJ n waiyee

in Quattro

Left2right; me, Yvonne,janice and cheng cheng

Drunken CHOI WAI WIN!!hahah....